Why??

Why is it that guys are so stupid? Not to be mean to them, well a bit mean but seriously. Why is it that now that I am 3000 miles from home... I have guys wishing I was there to date? I was in Massachusetts for 26 years, you couldnt get your act together in 26 years? Well granted not that long for some but still. There is one I have known for about 4 years. He recently tells me he "wishes I was around because I am the kind of girl you settle down with", UM HELLO I was around for 4 freakin years lol. Then I have one who I went on one date with couple months before I moved out here recently contact me again and tells me how he wishes he had kissed me on our date, and how much he wanted to BLAH BLAH BLAH.Then why didn't you? You held my hand at the movie was that not a big enough sign that I would kiss back??
Anyways, I have no time for this crap. Seriously why are guys idiots?
Note to guys:
If you like a girl tell her.
If you go on a date and you like a girl KISS HER.
If you go on a date and like a girl and dont kiss her make sure there is a 2nd date to kiss her.
If you think the girl is worthwhile tell her, don't let things slide.

Granted this is a rant about guys and I never do the same. If I like a guy I find it hard to tell him, but not if we have been on a date or have known each other. Come on guys get with it.
And stop coming out of the woodwork, unless you live in CA lol